Fishbowls

Fishbowls

Nothing matters as much as you think it does. I learned that when I went through police training in Regina, Saskatchewan. As a new recruit, everyone was placed in a troop of about 25-30 trainees. We all hoped to make it through the six months of training to get the...
Bullying in Policing

Bullying in Policing

One definition of bullying that I found is “seeking to harm, intimidate or coerce”. Some forms of bullying are out in the open. Others can be subtle. Looking back at my policing career, I can see instances – even so-called small ones – where I was bullied. One of the...
The Dangers of Positive Thinking

The Dangers of Positive Thinking

Positive Thinking alone is a waste of time. The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale is one of my favourite books. It is one of the first “self-help” books that I ever read. I can still remember the day my aunt gave it to me and I’ve read it...
Reversal of a Suicide Letter

Reversal of a Suicide Letter

I remember sitting at the edge of the bed. I remember looking at those pills. I remember thinking, “How many of these do I need to take so that I don’t wake up anymore?” I also remember, thankfully, how I was able to get out of the bed. When I was diagnosed...